So set up merge replication with each server being publisher and subscriber for each one? Wont that cause a lot of conflicts?

Yes I am looking to marry fault tolerance with scaling in one solution

So many possibilities. Right now I have two in mind.

I was thinking about Queuing as well but WMQ...

My thinking was if I was doing 3 servers. Sorry I was not clear.

If I do 2 servers, merge replication vs mirroring? I guess with merge replication I have failover...

I've been testing merge replication but since it is still Publisher/Subscriber, if my Publisher goes down then synchronization stops until I rebuild the replication. Or is there a way to...

Good thought. Part of my dillema is actualty scaling the updates. Since I need users to be able to insert and immediately query it back, those queries are against...